The
topic continues to come up what is the roles of men and women in the
Church. It is a subject that many feel passionately about one way or
another. Since the family is the basic unit then discussion should
start there. Generally both genders are commanded to get married and
have children as shared responsibilities. It is the first role of any
Church member to form and participate in a family structure.
Some
years ago President Monson talked about the rights and
responsibilities of the Priesthood. He listed concerns he had that
men were not living up to the full stewardship of their callings.
Among the problems he saw was a reluctance to do the most important
duty of our mortality; to get married. He acknowledged marriage
wasn't always an easy choice, but they still needed to seek a
companion:
"Now, I have thought a lot lately about you young men who are of an age to marry but who have not yet felt to do so. I see lovely young ladies who desire to be married and to raise families, and yet their opportunities are limited because so many young men are postponing marriage . . .
Perhaps
you are having a little too much fun being single, taking extravagant
vacations, buying expensive cars and toys, and just generally
enjoying the carefree life with your friends. I’ve encountered
groups of you running around together, and I admit that I’ve
wondered why you aren’t out with the young ladies.
Brethren,
there is a point at which it’s time to think seriously about
marriage and to seek a companion with whom you want to spend
eternity. If you choose wisely and if you are committed to the
success of your marriage, there is nothing in this life which will
bring you greater happiness."
The
institution of marriage is more than finding a friend or gratifying
physical desires that are natural to life. It is a commandment of
God. Salvation to the highest degree of Glory depends on two
committed people coming together and forming a bond. This is not just
any bond, but a relationship between a man and a woman greater than
mere acquaintance. It is of eternal significance and therefore must
be carefully sought and cultivated.